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We know we are in the wrong and that God’s teaching tells us to be pure and wait till we are married.
They’re not married, don’t know if they’ll ever get married, and are just enjoying each other’s bodies.
Most people who live together before they get married don’t get married and those who do have a higher divorce rate. You’ve already agreed that this is not the biblical pattern and thus is not a healthy pattern. What you’re demonstrating, by the fact that you say, “I want to do this but we always fall back into the same pattern again” is the strong bonding nature of sexual relationships. Sex was designed to be a deep bonding experience between a husband and wife.
What you’re experiencing is that deep bonding between the two of you even though you’re not married. However, if you’re going to develop a healthy dating relationship and make a wise decision about getting married or not getting married, you’re going to have to draw away from this obsession with the sexual part of the relationship.
Then, you’re going to have to explore other aspects of the relationship.
There are a few things you can do that will be helpful: The key is that you don’t allow yourself to be together in a sitting where you’re alone or private because if that happens, you’re very likely to be back in the same routine.